What I learned from a 1.5 week Situationship

I met this guy on MEET, an app like Tinder, but it’s for “language exchange” lol
You can choose to meet guys based on the language they speak.
The only con is that there’s like 3 minute advertisement for every 5 swipe you make.
So I bet users exit the app pretty frequently lol

His name was Mohammed. It’s such a common arab name that I don’t need an alias for.
He wsa 6 years older than me, from Cairo, speaks fluent Korean, and based on his profile pictures, he seemed like adventures and exciting sports.

What drew me into him was few things:
1) That he was an Arab living in Korea, not traveling.
2) His pictures looked exciting and fun to be around
3) He wasn’t that ugly & seemed 178cm tall

We called a few times before meeting in real life.
His voice was very sweet and charming. And I realized he wsa well used to using it for his advantage :)

It was the most common situationship ever.
1) We had dates like a real couple
2) Obviously slept together and a lot of fun
3) Texted and called regulary

Once, when he was drunk he said “I love you” and talked me to his friends.
Around the third date, I felt like this was love bombing
1) Went on a 2 night 3 day trip together to Busan Monday - Wednesday
2) Drank morning coffee on Saturday 8am
3) Went to the Blue house walk + lamb meat Sunday
Blocked the next day (Monday) because he mentioned “DVD room” which is practically a cheap ass place for couples to ‘netflix and chill’
4) Unblocked him on a drunk Saturday night (2am is such a bad time for ANYTHING….)
5) Met him on Monday at Kyodae + walk at a park nearby
6) Watched a movie and slept with him on Thursday
Blocked him on Friday night

I mean this timeline is here for every girl out there, who is confused to “does he want me? But not enough to be his girlfriend?!”
Yes! He just isn’t that into you!

Go on a date where the guy actually loves you and want to take care of you.
Here are my 3 reasons why I decided to call it quits for the 2nd time
1) Canceled meeting my friends on the day of the dinner = scared to men up and commit
2) Physical touching and flirting all the time we met
3) Made this fucking sad face whenever he had to pay. Girl, I have a mental picture of his face being so gloomy that I thought he realized his dick wasn’t even big enough or that all the girls he slept with, gave him a 1 star review.

It’s hard enough moving forward in my life.
I can’t afford to have a partner that is literally clinging on me, and doesn’t want to move forward himself.

Ugh I hate mental losers!