This has really been a difficult subject. I mean, it has been a difficult problem ever since I entered college.
1) I really like sex
2) I really want to have sex with the men I am talking to
3) I find sex to be relaxing
I am sure these are reasons why men also want to have sex (all the time)
If I think about it, I have been dating men who are visually attractive. This meant I wanted to have sex with them.
So all this time, I have been very “lust-ful” and not really into the real meaning of love.
The visual aspect overtook my brain! (I just realized….)
I just thought I liked sex.
You know what, I just realized. If my average drive for sex is 3.7 out of 5, it quickly becomes a 5 out of 5.
The only way to stop from acting 5 out of 5 is to eliminate any factor that could make me sleep with him.
1. No dinner dates with alcohol
2. No traveling together
3. No staying at a place with four walls and a roof privately
It already sounds so tramatizing.
No alcohol especially….
My original goal was no sex for 100 days since dating officially.
All my friends tell me that’s a far reach from being realistic.
So I changed to 100 days since I met him. Lol
I guess it’s all down to my discipline.
1. No alcohol
2. If horny, work out more or go to painting classes where I become very calm
3. Learn to come home early 10pm
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